They might all feel like one big
muscle mass. Here is the simplest way to find your PC muscle
and isolate it from all the others.
First, gently place one or two fingers right behind your
testicles. Pretend that you are urinating. Now try to stop the
flow. The muscle you just used to turn off the flow from the
bladder is your PC muscle. Did you feel it tightening? Maybe
you also noticed that your penis and testicles "jumped" a
little when you flexed your PC.
It is important that your stomach muscles and thigh muscles
remain relaxed. Did they get tense too? Here is a trick if
they are getting in the way. Try flexing your stomach muscles
or thigh muscles a number of times to tire them out and you
will have a better time of isolating the PC muscle.
You are not trying to get an erection here, and you do not
need an erection to exercise the PC. Relax and let your penis
respond naturally to these exercises.
Exercise 1. Squeeze Play
(three to five minutes a day)
Three times a day, flex the PC twenty times. Hold it for one
or two seconds each time, then release. That's it. Twenty
squeezes, three times a day.
You do not need to keep your finger on the PC during these
exercises. You should be able to feel it move internally. If
you don't, or if you're not sure, then keep your finger on the
PC the first few times you do your exercise.
Breathe normally during this exercise. Like any other muscle
building exercise, proper breathing is always important. You
don't want to hold your breath.
Repeat this exercise three times a day, every day, for three
weeks.
These PC exercises are easy and can be done anywhere - in the
car, at the beach, or while sitting at your desk. Do it on a
long line at the bank, or on a bus etc.
PC Pitfalls:
Doing too many reps. Go slow at first, as you would when you
start any other exercise. You can pour it on later.
Failing to isolate the PC. It is important that your stomach,
upper thighs, and buttocks are all completely relaxed when you
are working out the PC.
You might have a tendency to tense your other muscles during
your exercise . What you need to do is tense and untense your
stomach or other muscles ten or twenty times before you begin
your PC workout. That will tire them out so they don't get in
the way.
Exercise 2. The Big
Squeeze (two to three minutes a day)
Have you done Exercise 1. for three weeks? You are now ready
for the "The Big Squeeze" (a.k.a "The Power Squeeze" or "The
Death Grip" Keep doing your twenty squeezes, three times a
day, but now you are going to add ten really slow squeezes.
Take five seconds to slowly squeeze your PC as tight as you
can. Now hold the tension for a full five seconds, if
possible. Finally, release the tension gradually over the next
five seconds. You should be able to feel yourself really
working the muscle.
This might be a bit difficult at first. You may only be able
to do one or two fifteen second squeezes before you tire.
That's okay. But try to eventually work up to ten full
repetitions, each taking ten to fifteen seconds. It's most
important that you don't push yourself too hard.
Concentrate on control. You should be feeling each repetition
and trying to control that PC whenever you want.
MALE MULTIPLE ORGASM AND THE
MULTIORGASMIC MAN
A multiorgasmic man quite simple, is a man who can have two or
more orgasms in a row without resting. He does not experience
any significant down time between his orgasms. By "down time,"
I mean a refractory period in between orgasms when the penis
is not easily aroused. A multiogasmic man is able to maintain
his erection, even though he has already had an orgasm, and
continue making love from orgasm to orgasm. Unlike most
"normal" men, a multiorgasmic man does not lose his ability to
stay erect after his first orgasm. He can continue to a second
or even a third or fourth orgasm without resting. This is not
the same as having two or more orgasms in an afternoon of
lovemaking with periods of rest or breaks in between. The
multiorgasmic man does not need a rest. He might want to, and
he certainly can, but he doesn't have to stop. He is capable
of continuing to make love immediately after orgasm.
There are some men, particularly young men, who are just plain
lucky. These guys are naturals. Men like this are born
multiogasmic. For the rest of us, we have to be trained in it.
ORGASM WITHOUT EJACULATION......
As far as most men are concerned, there is not such thing as
an orgasm without ejaculation. It's a package deal, like
thunder and lightening, right? Wrong. This may be hard to
believe, but orgasm and ejaculation in males are two separate
things. Yes, they typically occur together, and yes, if feels
as though they are a package deal. But the physiological
reality is that they are not inseparable. It is possible to
have a full orgasm without simultaneous ejaculation. You can
however, have an orgasm with ejaculation, but you will
determine when and if you want to, and not your penis.
Did you know, for example, that ejaculation actually occurs in
two phases: emission and expulsion. In the emission phase of
your ejaculation, semen starts to move through the vas
deferens as muscles near the prostate gland begin to spasm.
The semen collects in the urethral bulb at the base of the
penis. In the second phase of your ejaculation, the expulsion
phase, the PC muscle starts to contract, forcing the semen up
through the urethra and out of the penis.
In a nutshell, here's what happening. In the emission phase,
semen from the testicles and prostate takes a little subway
ride to the base of the penis, prodded along by the
contractions of muscles near the prostate gland.
In the expulsion phase, your old friend the PC muscle picks up
the ball and pushes the semen up through the penis and out
into the world.
Phase 1: The cannon is
loaded. Phase 2. The cannon is fired.
THE ENTIRE EJACULATION PROCESS--EMISSION AND EXPULSION-- TAKES
ABOUT TWO SECONDS.
SPECIAL TIP: WHEN YOU REACH THE POINT OF NO RETURN, YOU AND
YOUR PARTNER SHOULD STOP THRUSTING. KEEP TAKING DEEP BREATHS.
OPEN YOUR EYES, FOCUS ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR GENITALS,
AND TRY TO FEEL THE SEMEN MOVING FROM YOUR TESTICLES, TO THE
BASE OF YOUR PENIS, AND UP THROUGH THE URETHRA.
COULD YOU FEEL THE SEMEN COLLECTING? DID YOU FEEL YOUR PC
SPASM? IF YOU STOPPED THRUSTING IN TIME, YOUR TWO-SECOND
EJACULATION PROBABLY FELT AS IF IT TOOK FIVE TO TEN SECONDS.
For most men, the contraction of the PC during expulsion is an
involuntary process. Once you take control of your PC muscle,
however, you can voluntarily delay or prevent ejaculation. Yet
your body still experiences the full sensation of orgasm,
complete with rapid heart rate, muscle contractions, and the
intense sensation of release.
Understanding the difference between emission and expulsion
helps you learn to actually feel these two distinct phases of
ejaculation as they are happening to you. Most men are very
aware of the expulsion phase, but they have little sense of
what's happening prior to that. But if you want to get the
timing right in the last and most important exercises, you're
going to need a bit more ejaculation awareness than the
average guy.
KEY POINTS SO FAR:
PC exercises and awareness of the PC muscle are key to
controlling ejaculation.
Orgasm and ejaculation do not have to occur together; they are
two distinct phenomena that can be experienced as separate
pleasures.
A nonejaculatory orgasm feels as good, if not better, than a
conventional orgasm.
Having a nonejaculatory orgasm enables you to maintain an
erection and continue intercourse.
It is possible to have a second orgasm soon after your first
orgasm. It is even possible to have a third or fourth orgasm,
whether or not you ejaculate with any or all of your orgasms.
THE REASON YOU ARE TRAINING YOUR PC MUSCLE IS TO GAIN CONTROL
OVER THE EJACULATION PROCESS. YOU CAN CONTROL PREMATURE
EJACULATION AS WELL AS DELAYING EJACULATION TO OCCUR WHEN AND
IF YOU WANT.
HOW AROUSED ARE YOU?
Ask the average man if he's feeling aroused and what does he
say? "Yes" or "No". Ask him to describe his arousal and what
does he say? Not a whole lot more.
You need to know what is happening to your body during the
various stages of arousal. There are various levels of
arousal, each having its own distinct sensations and
intensity. Some shifts are subtle, some are profound, but it
is not a black or white thing. It's a lot more like a rainbow.
You will want to focus on and appreciate the different colors
of the rainbow and the subtle differences of each one.
You need to know the various levels of your own arousal the
way a composer knows the notes on the scale. To make this
easier, you are going to establish a scale of your own: AN
AROUSAL SCALE.
The arousal scale is going to be a very simple scale that goes
from one to ten, with Level 1 being the lowest level of
arousal and Level 10 being the highest.
Lets begin with Level 1. There isn't a sexual thought in your
head. You are not experiencing any arousal whatsoever. None.
Zero. Nada. At that moment you are at Level 1.
Now lets jump to Level 10. That's an easy one. Level 10 is
orgasm. The Big "O". The end of the road.
Now all we need to do is establish everything in between.
A level 2 or Level 3 is that slight twinge sensation you get
at the base of your penis as you begin to get aroused.
Next comes Level 4. That's a steady, low level of arousal.
It's more than a twinge now... you're feeling good. Still you
could stop without much difficulty.
At Level 5 and Level 6 your arousal is already substantial.
Now you're really into it. Once you reach these levels you
don't want to think about stopping. You're feeling too good
now. By the time you get to Level 7 or Level 8, you will feel
your heart pounding and your face may flush. Level 9 is
intense. You aren't far from the top now...you are very close
to orgasm.
Just short of Level 10 is a very crucial point I call "the
point of no return" It is commonly referred to as "the point
of inevitability." It's at that point at which it becomes
clear that you are about to have an orgasm. Once you've hit
the point of inevitability, there is no going back. Your body
is committed to having that orgasm.
On our 1 to 10 scale, this "point of no return" would register
a 9.9. This is a very important number for you to remember.
Talking about levels of arousal can get a little bit abstract
after a while. You need to experience them. One of the ways
you learn each level is by comparing it to the previous level,
or to the following one. "How do I know what a 3 is?" you may
ask. It's a little higher than a 2. How do you know you're at
a 7? Well you definitely past a 5 or 6 but you haven't hit an
8.
Do note that these number are all relative to each other. The
important thing is that each level feels slightly different.
The only absolute number assignments are 1, which is no
arousal, 9.9 which is the point of no return, and 10, which is
orgasm.
Don't worry if your 4 is another man's 5. All that counts are
your own relative levels of arousal.
Please don't use these numbers to judge your performance in
any way. A "6" is not better than a "3"; a "4" is not worse
than a "7.' They're just different. The only goal is to become
more intimate with the subtle changes in your body during your
arousal.
WHAT ABOUT YOUR ERECTION?
It is very common for men to equate arousal with erections,
but they are NOT one and the same. Arousal is a feeling; it is
a subjective sense of excitement that can be experienced
throughout the body, though it is typically felt most keenly
in the genitals.
Erection, on the other hand, refers to hardness of the penis.
Erection is a very objective measure of hardness that is a
direct reflection of blood flowing into this organ. A man can
feel very aroused...incredibly aroused...yet not be erect.
Maybe you become fully erect at arousal Level4; maybe you
don't get erect until Level 6. Or maybe like most men, it's
different on different days. It doesn't matter right now
because you are not going to worry a lot about erections here.
You're concern right now is learning about your level of
arousal. Focusing too intently on your erection as a way of
discouraging the process. When you leave it alone, it tends to
come home. So don't think about it. Right now, all you need to
do is focus on your numbers.
HOW TO PEAK
Reaching a peak means letting your arousal rise to a certain
level and then immediately letting it drop back down. For
example, you may let your arousal rise to Level 6, then let it
fall back down. That's a Level 6 peak. Or you may let your
arousal rise to Level 9, then let it fall back down. That's a
Level 9 peak. (Remember that we are talking about arousal
here, not about erections.)
This is different from trying to maintain your arousal at a
given level, which is known as "plateauing." I will let you
know how to do that in another post.
You can do this exercise with a partner but for right now and
to shorten this post I will explain how to do it solo.
Lie down or sit down and get very comfortable. Put some
lubrication on your hand and on your penis. What you are going
to do now is start by giving yourself a genital caress. Slowly
stroke your self until you reach what you would consider to be
a Level 4 of arousal. That's past the "twinge" stage to the
point where you're feeling a low, steady "hum" of arousal.
Remember that you are not using a masturbation stroke: you are
caressing yourself.
When you get to Level 4, stop the stimulation and take a deep
breath... a really slow deep breath. Check your PC muscle,
your hip muscles, and your thigh muscles to make sure they're
all really relaxed. Now let your arousal drop back down a
couple of levels to a "2". Take your time. You just had your
first "peak" at Level 4.
Once you have dropped to Level 2, start your caress again.
This time, see if you can go up to around Level 6. You may
need to stroke yourself a little bit faster to get to this
slightly higher level. That's fine. When you reach Level, stop
the stimulation once again. Take a real slow deep breath and
let your arousal drop back down a few levels to around a "4."
Make sure all your muscles are completely relaxed. Great. You
have just had a "peak" at Level 6.
You are going to continue this exercise for the next fifteen
to twenty minutes. What You want to do is try to have a peak
at Level 4, Level 6, Level 7, Level 8, and Level 9, which is
the point just prior to your "point of no return". At each
level it's important to stop the stimulation, relax, take a
really deep breath, and make sure all of your muscles are
relaxed. Always let yourself drop at least one level,
preferably two, after each peak.
Try not to bring your arousal up in a spike, like shooting
from a Level 3 to a Level 8. You're trying to stretch out your
arousal into an extended series of gradually increasing peaks.
If you were going to graph your arousal, it would look like a
wave, not like a needle.
Don't rush your peaks. Each up and down cycle should take four
or five minutes. Stretch them out. Let them build slowly and
savor each one. As your peaks get higher and higher, it may
become more and more difficult to relax. One way to overcome
this by taking deeper and deeper breaths at each level. If all
this stimulation has made you need to ejaculate, go ahead.
Otherwise, you can stop the exercise once you've completed
four or five peaks. If you don't get up to Level 8 or Level 9
the first time, that's okay; you will with practice.
Ultimately, you will need to be able to peak at very high
level. This is not hard once you get used to the whole process
of peaking. Through repetition you will learn to recognize and
become comfortable at your different levels. Believe it or
not, it won't be long before you can even differentiate
between Levels 8, 8.5, 9, and 9.5. Talk about knowing your own
body! This kind of fine sensitivity to your arousal will make
multiple orgasm a snap.
ALL THE WHILE YOU STILL NEED TO DO PC
EXERCISES AND ALSO YOUR ENLARGING TECHNIQUES. IN THE END YOU
WILL TRULY BE A SUPERMAN.
Before I proceed, if you have read to this point, you will
have noted that there is a lot of work to be done on your
part. Enlarging your penis is Childs play as compared to this.
You must master all of the preparatory exercises etc. to build
a solid foundation. You have to take baby steps before you can
be a superman. There is no overnight system to transform you.
However, as you have learned about PE, is that, in time, and
with hard work, you will reach your goals.
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