"Sex is an extremely important part of my life-
I find my job very stressful- the hours are very long & sex for
me is a great release of tension and stress. I don't have
time for a relationship. At work I am in a high position of
power, therefore I find it a great turn on for a man to take
control over me in the bedroom. Unfortunately many men don't
posses this kind of confidence or the right size package to
take control of me.
Penis size is actually fairly important to me,
which I suppose is quite sad. Recently I slept with a man
who was very handsome, but very inadequate downstairs, if you
know what I mean. I wanted to laugh when I saw it-I just
couldn't help myself. When it was all over I ended going into
the bathroom and satisfying myself. Not exactly the
ideal date or situation.
However, I have had more successes in bed when the man was
above average in size.
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There is no point
in having crap sex- I can quite happily satisfy myself if need be.
In my experience men who are larger do make better lovers.
They possess a higher level of confidence-, which alone is much
more of a turn on. A partner who is confident within
themselves and their body is more likely to know what he wants and
be able to satisfy me.
Length is not the most important factor for me, girth is. I'll
never forget Rob* who had at least a 8 inch penis, but it was the
thinnest, weakest looking thing I'd ever seen-this was reflected
in the short performance. A good large girth usually means a
stronger, more flexible penis. This is reflected in the length
and control a man displays during sex leading to greater
satisfaction. Up to a point, it is what you do with it- but if you
do it with a large penis the results for me are greater and leave
a lasting impression. Most of my girlfriends would agree."
Helen Tatton*, 31,
from St Petersburg, Florida. She is a
successful attorney and lives with her boyfriend of 7 years. She
talks about how their relationship has been affected by sex…..
'Paul* and myself
have been together for what seems like ever. We're very
happy together, but I don't think we will get married. The idea just doesn't appeal to
us. We're happy as we are. Not everything has all ways been so
smooth though. It took a long time for our sex life to be up to
standard!
When we first got together, it became apparent fairly quickly that
I had a much greater sex drive than Paul*. Sometimes he simply
wasn't interested. This began to affect the rest of our
relationship very quickly. I began to doubt myself, his love and our trust.
Paul* simply wasn't interested and when he was in the mood, it lacked something.
We both decided that something must be done or our relationship
would suffer further. We talked at great length about what the
problem was. Paul* felt he wasn't confident enough or big enough.
I agreed he wasn't confident enough in the bedroom, but he was big enough at 6.5
inches he was certainly ample.
Paul* decided to take matters into his own hands
and said that we couldn't have sex
for a 4 week period. In this time
he began doing exercises to
strengthen his penis, which in turn would give him more confidence.
He also had a delivery of pills arrive which I later found out
where
natural enlargement pills.
At first, I do admit I had my doubts. It sounded almost sleazy and
dodgy. But, my relationship was on the line here. I was willing to
try anything to prevent losing the man that I loved. After the
4-week period, we resumed sexual activity. The change in Paul*
was amazing. His penis was thicker and stronger looking. This
change was reflected in his confidence level and his performance.
We took the plunge and have never looked back.
Our sex life is now fantastic. I still don't know what exercises
Paul* does. I don't really care. All I know, is that they have changed
our relationship. I never though that sex could have such a
bearing on your life and relationships. I'm just glad we got it
sorted before it was too late.'
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